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Boardroom Reports
By Dr. Cheryl Lieberman
and Ellin Reisner
Beware of the people in businesses
who display nonviolent versions of the qualities of serial killers we
read about and see on TV. In place of violence, they use office politics
to undermine others - sometimes destroying careers.
Often, like real killers, they
weave a pattern in the selection of people they choose to harm, while
showing no remorse for their "assaults." They feel exhilaration when they
succeed in discrediting a star employee…or capitalizing on the honest
mistakes of someone who stands in the way of their promotion.
How to Spot Troublemakers
Problem for managers:
The work of such destructive employees often goes unnoticed for a long
time. Trap: Victims and their friends are afraid to talk about the problem.
They'd rather get transferred to another office…or even switch companies.
And the perpetrator can maintain
a favorable image for a long time. In fact, like the notorious Ted Bundy,
office serial "killers" may have great charm, especially in the presence
of the boss. The rest of the time they are erratic - sometimes being friendly
and confiding, and other times being irrationally hostile and abusive.
Though they may refer often to dear friends, they tend to be loners who
don't form sustained relationships.
Typically, they lack insight
into their own behavior and project all their difficulties on others.
First clues that a "serial
killer" may be at work in your company:
- Large numbers of people
quitting
- Someone (the "killer") is
paying more attention to pleasing the manager than to his/her own work.
Everyone wants to please the boss, but the serial killer overdoes it.
- An unusually large volume
of job relocations, either voluntary or involuntary.
- Decreased productivity as
workers begin to spend too much energy defending themselves and not
enough on the job.
- An overactive rumor mill.
When people can't deal with a situation directly, they resort to talking
about it.
- An increase in customer
complaints due to reduced productivity and service.
- Negative comments begin
to surface about employees whom management knows to be solid performers.
- Increased visits to the
human resources or personnel department or to the Employee Assistance
Program (EAP).
It's a big mistake to think
the problem will just blow over. A great deal of damage can take place
if managers continue to look the other way.
Managers must do something
more than listen to deal with rumors. The victims need fast, remedial
action.
Trap: Dealing with symptoms
rather than causes. It's not helpful, for example, to say, "We'll have
no more of these unkind rumors going around." And simply placating customer
complaints is not enough. If behind-the-scenes causes continue to fester,
further customer complaints lie ahead.
BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH DESTRUCTIVE
PEOPLE
Once the first clues
of a destructive employee's actions become evident, interview people who
have worked with the person in the past. Aim: To get input from people
who may have been afraid to speak up earlier, but can now provide evidence
of the person's destructive actions. This will help managers catch the
offender in his/her next "offense."
The best weapon of a serial
killer is thinking his/her behavior is going unnoticed. Break through
that pattern by confronting the situation head on, preferably bringing
the people involved together for a face-to-face meeting.
Note: Before calling
the meeting, do serious investigating. Ask questions. Observe. Learn.
Do enough homework on all parties to get a feel for the situation. Be
straightforward about why the meeting is being called: "Something's going
on here that is negatively affecting our business and I need to get to
the bottom of it. Let's talk frankly."
Usually, then, the victim will
hold back nothing in an effort to clear his/her reputation. The result
is usually clear - the aggressor must either leave the company, or be
moved to a position where no damage to others is possible.
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